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Traditional Femininity: Women Longing To Be Treated Like Pets Rather Than Human Beings

Sanni Lark
3 min readJan 29, 2024

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Why is nobody questioning the fact that thousands of single ladies all over this country are preparing to be wives to men who are not preparing themselves to be husbands?

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For starters, why is nobody questioning the fact that thousands of single ladies all over this country are preparing to be wives to men who are not preparing themselves to be husbands? It’s no wonder why everyone blames the woman for why a marriage or relationship didn’t work out! Men function like helpless children in these dynamics!

Why is nobody asking why these femininity coaches are encouraging men who don’t meet anyone’s standard to sadistically dangle the carrot of marriage in the faces of single ladies as if they must earn it? Are single, heterosexual women human beings or are they pets who do tricks for food, provision, and love? I’m confused!

Why are so many women under the impression that being a wife is all it takes to “rest in their femininity” (a bullshit concept, I should add) and be provided for when only a small percentage of men are equipped to financially provide for a woman and a family consistently?

No matter how long your dresses and skirts are, no matter if you refrain from cursing, no matter how often you go to church and pray for…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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