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Unpopular Opinion: More Women Should Have Short-Term Flings!
There is this overwhelming notion that all women must want forever with one man, and if we haven’t achieved that we are failures. I say fuck that!
Short-term flings can be their own version of fun and healing for women, and I wish more of us felt safe enough to ignore the negative stigma surrounding them, like we are seen as somebody’s cum bucket or rebound chick because we choose to involve ourselves with people who recently broke up, or even if we don’t care to be the love of someone’s life; we are just here to spend a man’s money and get some orgasms out of the transaction.
There is this overwhelming notion that all women must want forever with one man, and if we haven’t achieved that we are failures. I say fuck that!
I think women are way too obsessed with not only finding the one but being the one as well. I am not sure if this fixation is natural or if it is engrained in us to want something that men don’t really care for through societal pressure and conditioning, but a lot of women can find love, fulfillment, pleasure, adventure, and fun in flings. Keep things lighthearted and sexy and leave when you are done!
Since nobody is telling you this, I will: you don’t have to seal the deal and earn love through some long-term relationship that’s supposed to lead to…
