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Vampires Don’t Do Long-Term Relationships & Friendships?

Sanni Lark
4 min readMar 14, 2024

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I am much too in love with the possibilities to discover more of myself through my ever-changing, varying life experiences to love any one person for a lifetime.

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I am always coming and going. I can’t stay anywhere or with anyone too long. Through my experiences with people I am not necessarily looking to be loved by them but to seek more and more experiences to meet myself, and I cannot accomplish this if I insist on staying put in relationships I have extracted all of the wisdom and value I need to evolve and expand a long time ago.

I have chosen to bravely exist beyond the illusions of this matrix which tell us that we should all aspire to experience the bliss of unconditional love when the love people insist on selecting is conditional at best. I have come across a few disgruntled readers who called me out for declaring that relationships are transactional, not unconditional in the ways women believe they should be where someone loves them through thick and thin.

Frankly, I see nothing wrong with transactional, conditional love. My condition for allowing anyone, whether a family member, friend, or romantic partner, to access my life force to benefit them is that I must be able to vampire, or feed on, experiences within these relationships that allow me to get to know myself better and deeper in…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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