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Want To Really Know Why People Talk So Fucking Much? Let’s Ask Death!
Most people have nothing interesting, productive, or meaningful to say. They can shut the entire hell up and your life will not be affected in any significant way.
I have concluded that people are quick to open their mouths, usually for very specific reasons: they are bored, they are nosy and meddlesome, or they are either looking to trauma bond or they are looking to argue, which is also a form of trauma bonding. Because there is literally nothing in this world worth arguing about.
Let people vote for who they want. Let people disagree with you. Let people believe in Jesus, Santa, the Easter Bunny, or the Illuminati. What does anything people believe in or value have to do with you?
You know that you can disagree with people and actually keep quiet about it, right? Trust me, you’re not going to die if you’re not expressing your opinions 24/7. You’re not going to have a heart attack if you can’t get someone else to see your point of view. Maybe they’re not meant to see it yet, or even at all?
It is very rare that someone wants to connect with you for reasons that actually add to your life. Why? Because the majority of folks unconsciously waste their time and energy, so their limited scope of awareness of their own lives means they have nothing better…
