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When It Comes To Sexual Consent, Parents Who Expect Grandkids Are Just As Bad As These Men.

Sanni Lark
3 min readApr 25, 2024

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The harsh truth is that nobody really cares how a child comes into existence. As long as he or she exists. That’s all that matters.

Credit: Michael Koneckiy

No matter how much backlash I receive on this subject I will forever hold the belief that no parent truly loves their child until they can fully grasp, whether in their heart of hearts, every bone in their body, or both, that they are not owed grandchildren.

It is very difficult to love someone who makes their own decision to reject meeting any requirements you have prematurely attached your heart and your hopes for the future to. Especially when you nearly gave your life to create them at that! However, this is a part of our evolution as human beings.

This is the closest any parent can get to understanding unconditional love: when they are not starting a family with the condition and expectation that sometime in the future their children will sacrifice their bodies, their money, their time, their dreams, and more to “repay” them for loving them in the form of grandkids!

So I must ask, is there much of a difference between a man coercing a woman to have sex for the sake of procreation or his pleasure and a parent coercing their daughter to have sex for the act of procreation?

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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