Whoever wants to be understanding to “their plight” is free to do so. I refuse to waste my time on black men. I’m not here to “help the black community,” get these men to see the error in their ways, nor help black women understand their self-inflicted problems. I have been done with these men (and frankly, this soul-sucking culture) a long, long time ago. I clearly see how they are milking everyone’s compassion for their own benefit.
Again, whoever wants to be used in this way, no matter the gender or race, knows what they’re getting into at this point. And to that I say good luck. Their problems aren’t my problem any longer.