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Why Are Women So Scared To Trade Up When It Comes To Men?
“You want to cultivate a more luxurious lifestyle without a shiny, brand new man to match? The hell?
You refuse to apply this silly ass loyalty nonsense to almost every aspect of your life. But when it comes to relationships, being devoted matters?”
“I can’t believe my girlfriend really think(s) that I’m gonna marry her and we’ll live happily ever after. Soon as I get a decent job I’mma leave her and start dating my types TF.
People need to understand that we’re not entitled to be with them forever just because they were with us when we were broke. We each have our own preference(s), and that doesn’t make me love my current girlfriend any less. Things change, feelings change. It’s a vicious life cycle.
If my girl could leave me for a guy who’s well established and appreciates her more than I do, I would gladly accept and never hold her hostage just ’cause she’s been with me through thick and thin. This entitlement over people’s lives is the reason people resort to violent behavior.”
@SipheBravo (Twitter handle)
One day my boyfriend at the time casually told me that he always upgrades his women. His ex wasn’t a clean person, and he was happy to discover that I kept a clean home. He also mentioned that should anything…