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Why Men Love Lesbians But Hate Gay Men
“They accept the ideology that the masculine exists as the superior sex, therefore they can still have whatever or whomever they desire, even if a woman expresses she isn’t attracted to men at all.
It is rare that a man can acknowledge in his heart of hearts that some ladies do not exist to be loved or fucked by them.”
“I wouldn’t mind if my daughter is gay, but my son cannot be gay. At all!” a man expressed to me one afternoon with much emotional gusto.
“But why?” I asked with squinted eyes. I was in disbelief over the sexist, homophobic hypocrisy of his statement. This wasn’t the first time I’ve heard such a disgusting sentiment, but no father ever gave me a reasonable explanation as to why they felt so strongly about this popular opinion.
“Because…”
I waited for an answer. Nothing came.
Many men cannot help but make the sexual choices of everyone about them and what they feel entitled to. This is why they carefully select their son’s sexuality for them before these boys can read while their daughter is free to love whomever she pleases. This is why they claim to either love lesbians or see no issue in accepting them. As men, they feel as if they still have a fighting chance to exist as “the one” who turns a gay woman straight! They truly are slaves…
