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Why Men Secretly Date Fat Women
“The truth is that most people do not date or marry individuals they really love. They date and marry the men and women they believe will boost their social value and earn them the social validation they’ve been craving since children.”
A few days ago I watched a YouTube video featuring a young lady who is in an intersize relationship. For those who are not familiar with the term, intersize refers to a monogamous relationship where one partner is significantly larger or smaller than their significant other.
In this case, the woman is fat and her partner is a jacked bodybuilder. They post hilarious videos on TikTok about their marriage and childfree lifestyle. But what appears to be an innocent display of a young couple expressing their love for each other has many strangers completely unhinged.
The main criticism given is that this man who trains and eats strictly deserves better than a wife who is automatically judged as a lazy slob based on her size. I detect that many single ladies who have come across this couple are especially upset that they have sacrificed so much to fit society’s standards of attractiveness and they still don’t have a man.
I even watched a reel where a fat woman explained how even though women make fun of her body she has a man who loves her fat rolls enough to lick them during sex. Plus…
