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Why Singleness Is The Cheat Code To Accessing Deeper States Of Femininity

Sanni Lark
3 min readJun 16, 2024

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A lot of men are not interested in relationships or marriage to serve the feminine or keep their partners in highly elevated states of softness, ease, beauty, nurturing, and pleasure.

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I am aware that many ladies want to be in relationships because it is ingrained in our psyches since childhood that we need to be up under these men to finally experience what it is like to feel like a woman for the first time in our lives. But… what if relationships were designed to do the opposite?

What if nearly all relationships were spiritually constructed to be negative catalysts for women to experience pain, suffering, abuse, and trauma so that we can elevate into healthier relationships with ourselves, and whether we choose to involve someone else into our exclusive love affair is up to us? After all, pretty much all of us has a story to tell about a traumatizing situation we found ourselves in after the honeymoon phase wore off, even though these men will gaslight us with the “Choose better men!” rhetoric.

Well, I say there is no better in existence when it comes to chasing the elusive concept known as true love by hopping from one relationship to the next for the entirety of your life and collecting bodies and heartbreak along the way. Sometimes, choosing better means not…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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