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Why Some Women Are Creepy Control Freaks In Dead Relationships!

Sanni Lark
4 min readJun 15, 2023

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“When you know who you are, you do not stick around to play games with someone you know is no good for you!”

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A gorgeous artist by the name of Cristina Mackey had some words of wisdom to share on Instagram regarding the nonsense women pull in dead relationships they refuse to move on from. And I wholeheartedly agree with her words.

“Blocking, unblocking, friending, unfriending, replying, not replying; if his name and your phone plan is together, turning his phone off. All of that is weird-ass, controlling behavior and it all stems from your own insecurities.

There is nothing that he can do to make you not insecure. You have to deal with that yourself. Absolutely you have to deal with that yourself. But if you continue to play these games with that man you will find yourself single, and then you’re going to find yourself in a new relationship and then he’s going to find out you’re insecure.

So it’s better to deal with your own insecurities first before trying to be back in a relationship. You’re insecure.

No woman that has faith and knows herself enough to…know her power is going to some shit like turn the phone off. Like, that’s a weird-ass, control tactic. And it’s fucking unnecessary. Or following, unfollowing, looking from fake

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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