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Why Women Secretly Want Their Man To Fail!
“Their cognitive dissonance prevents them from seeing the reality of relationships: a man’s tastes can and will change once he has worked his way out of struggling.”
Many women have been groomed since childhood to be “bottom bitches” or “down ass bitches” for men. Now these titles sound disgusting and derogatory in nature, and they are; but if you look at the root words in these labels and especially the culture from which they were derived from, being there for a man when he is at the bottom or when he is down and out is sadly glorified.
A loyal woman is viewed as an asset to the average man, although these dime-a-dozen loyal wives and girlfriends are usually tossed aside and discarded quickly by the same man they sacrificed their quality of life, time, money, and efforts into once he reaches success.
Take a look at many male entertainers and celebrities today. Most of them are not with the first mother of their child or their first spouse. They traded up and upgraded their women, plus they don’t feel any guilt about it. I dare you to scroll through social media and witness how many men are publicly stating that they plan to leave their partners once…
