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Why You Should Quit Giving A Fuck About Being Irreplaceable To Useless People
Many people are not looking for a muse because they cannot financially, mentally, or emotionally afford her.
Hurt women are obsessed with being irreplaceable to men who have traumatized them because they refuse to make peace with the fact that the relationship ran its course and it is time to move on, despite giving their all to an ungrateful man. Instead of realizing that closure can involve not giving a fuck if an abusive man can or cannot find someone else to traumatize, women are lying to themselves about how rare they are to their exes who will probably find another woman who can do the same shit they’ve done.
There’s not much to being a girlfriend, which is why this role doesn’t entice me in any way. For the most part men expect their girlfriends to perform a list of tasks to earn their company and perhaps some paid bills such as cooking, cleaning, fucking, and pretending as if they respect his manhood. Seriously, there’s not much to it.
If you can’t perform these tasks to a man’s liking you are dumped, forever labeled as not being able to keep a man, and left to gaslight yourself with nonsense about being rare and irreplaceable when enough women are lined up ready to replace you; even the ones who claim they don’t settle.
