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Women Are Paying 50% Of The Bills With Men Who Expect Them To Risk 100% Of Their Lives To Have Kids!

Sanni Lark
8 min readMar 7, 2023

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“Ladies, when you cheapen yourself by settling down with a man whose checks cannot cover you and the family he demands you have for him, you cannot expect that man to value you. Sorry.”

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I recently came across a Reddit post in the AmITheAsshole thread where a new mother asked if she was the asshole for contemplating if she should leave her husband over a financial conundrum in which he showed his whole ass, so to speak, and told her how he really felt about her and her sacrifice of childbirth through refusing to pay half of a hospital bill.

Half, ladies and gentlemen. Half. Let’s read.

My husband (35M) and I (32F) welcomed our first baby three months ago. We’ve been married seven years now and decided it was time to expand our family. Everything was going well and we were in our little newborn bubble of bliss until the hospital bills came.

Both my husband and I have jobs and everything financially is split 50/50, but we’ve always kept our money separate with the exception of a joint account for bills.

Ladies and gentlemen, once I read this raggedy sentence I knew the rest of the story was going to be a shit show. You can call it whatever you want. You can call me whatever you…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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