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Women Are Still Complaining That Men Don’t Find Them Attractive. Gross.
Only women who are going nowhere in life and require men to define their lives because they aren’t brave enough to have desires that do not center the opposite sex worry about being appealing to men.
I have goals and heights I want to reach in life that have absolutely nothing to do with how attractive men find me. Being pretty enough to be picked and chosen, whether I have a natural or surgically-enhanced body, has no bearing on the will I have for my womanhood. Like sure, it’s cool to have pretty and thin privilege, but I can’t do much with these privileges in the grand scheme of things. I should add that these privileges keep women chained to the same patriarchal system they claim they want dismantled, so there.
At the end of the day men determine the rewards women should receive for being pretty and thin enough, and those benefits will never be substantial enough for me to abandon my will to chase men, their wallets, plus the weddings rings and happy families they always promise but underdeliver on though my looks.
The success I have defined for my womanhood, or the success I promised my inner child I would achieve, does not require me to be eye candy for the average man. Only average women who believe securing the bag means receiving survival from average men like a…
