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Women & Their Fake Outrage With Being Viewed As Incubators
Our society at large, plus the women that make up our society, work in tandem to dehumanize the feminine gender as valuable solely in relation to how much they serve others.
One specific reason why I didn’t want to have children was because I knew that decision alone would automatically cast me as an incubator in the eyes of our society, no matter how I felt about it. Unfortunately when you give birth you relinquish your individuality and unique spark, at least to everyone else. So no, I didn’t want to be known as Marina’s mother or Omar’s baby mama. The only name I want to be called in this lifetime is Sanni. Or mistress. Ha!
Want to quit being viewed as an incubator or a future incubator? You must show the world that you are more than your fertility and the lives you can create through unprotected sex. I get that you are a “proud mama bear of five” but having this information in your bio prevents others from seeing you as an individual woman of power with so much to offer.
