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Women & Their Silly Obsession With Needing Men To “Rest In Their Femininity”
Men are not the sole source of anything women want or need in this life.
One, rest and femininity do not always go hand in hand. Only babies rest and nap all goddamn day. So no, you are not going to turn into a man just because you work or you enjoy working. And two, not having a man isn’t stopping any woman on this planet from existing as a woman who is living in her truth. This “I need a man to be feminine” nonsense suggests that women who belong to different sexualities and choose not to be with men at all are not feminine. Again, bullshit!
These silly conclusions are the result of believing that men have all the answers and all the tools a woman needs to feel her best when women have had these tools within themselves the entire time. If they tell you that you are masculine solely based on your race you believe them. If they tell you that women from other cultures and races have husbands who provide for them because they are better than black women you believe them.
Sadly, straight women are notorious for never questioning shit men say because they think they need them so damn badly to live a lie that other “kept” women refuse to disclose as slavery disguised as femininity.
