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Women Want Money & Men Want Sex?

Sanni Lark
4 min readFeb 16, 2023

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“True equality in relationships is when two people are willing to sacrifice something that they each can feel satisfied with.”

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While many people want to keep the realm of romance as sacred and pure as they can, when we truly examine the depths of love and what makes for a successful relationship we can see the ways in which romance can be transactional. Actually, it is very transactional. Because every single aspect of life is about give and take. There is no exemption for love.

Because romance is largely about two parties benefitting from a single goal which is a healthy relationship, when it comes to heterosexual romance women are now demanding to be upgraded to a better compensation that includes tangible rewards for their sexual and emotional investment in a man. No longer are the promises, sweet words, fake loyalty, and attention worthwhile. Women want rewards they can see, touch, smell, and spend!

Yes my friends, we are talking about money. And men are piping mad about it!

They used to get away with being loved, taken care of, fed, nurtured, and pleasured sexually by a woman while conveniently being able to mature and grow up into manhood. It was never questioned when a woman had to have her shit together while her man was afforded a million excuses to explain why he was lagging behind in accomplishments…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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