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Women Want To Fall In Love, While Men Want To Score Some Pussy & Social Validation
“Do men actually care to be in love, or are they using relationships to fulfill some other mission?”
From my own personal experiences with romance, coupled with the observations of how men and women interact with one another within the realm of romance, I believe the objectives of love which manifests an array of intense feelings drastically differs between the sexes.
Simply put, the majority of women want to fall in love, while men are not that interested in the lovey-dovey feelings that being in love entails, for the most part at least. Sure, they benefit from loving a woman, but not in the ways women may want.
If it is said that women want love and men want sex, how can both parties get what they need out of each other and feel satisfied?
For example, in my past relationships I usually felt as if I was giving so much of myself and not receiving anything I truly wanted in return. I never felt as if I was deeply cherished and appreciated for the sacrifices I made for those men, because what I gave up to be with them was automatically expected of me from these same men! There was no consideration or compassion afforded to me, as well as the emotional turmoil and anxiety I endured, to “secure” a relationship that I knew was going…
