Women Who Heal To Earn Men Are Women Who Heal To Earn Cages

Men were not designed to fully contain the totality and depths of who you are, as well as your infinite potential in your femininity.

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Once I realized that more than 90% of humans on this planet were not capable of or willing to love others freely, let alone themselves, I knew that I was wasting my time chasing the beautiful illusions of romance, family, community, friendship, and other relationships that are supposed to make this human experience worthwhile. These connections are important, but they are not everything once you recognize that you are more than human.

So I have created my own version of worthwhile, and it has involved me completely disregarding the “Love is all you need” brainwashing and actually chasing loneliness, the Boogeyman of humanity. Sitting in solitude and learning to embrace a discomfort that has everyone running back to their exes in fear of feeling lonely for even a split second was my ticket out of this socially-acceptable insanity and into my right mind, for the first time in my life.

Now this isn’t to say that men don’t have their place. They exist for a reason. But men were not designed to fully contain the totality and depths of who you are, as well as your infinite potential in your femininity. They create structures like jobs, relationships, marriages…