Wow! The audacity for a homeless man to ask you out on a date!
And yes, I’ve heard of men who prefer to get paid off the books because of child support. It’s wild.
My thing is this: if you abandon your family and responsibilities you have no right to proclaim that anything/anyone outside of yourself “destroyed the black family.”
I always tell these men to show me a black wife and black children who all live with them under the same roof if they have the gall to utter this statement.