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You Can’t Be Shamed For Being A Single Mother If You Refuse To Birth The Men Who Shame You

Sanni Lark
3 min readMay 10, 2024

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Since these wayward sons are so damn angry at women who supposedly can’t keep a man around, would these men rather not have been born in the first place?

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Men will never use basic context clues to figure out that the nuclear family they shame women for failing to create requires a man and a woman. Therefore, there is no such thing as a two-parent household if they do not remain with the mother. And yet they blame all single mothers for why the fathers refuse to stay put during pregnancy and childrearing, two of the toughest, most life-changing experiences in a woman’s life.

I should add that these same judgmental men also end up creating the same broken homes they grew up in and claim they hate with a passion. It’s interesting how the men who despise and look down on single mothers for their relationship and family status that usually wouldn’t have been possible were it not for the absence, neglect, and abuse of the fathers are the same men who were born and reared by single mothers themselves. They provide all sorts of statistics on how kids from single parent homes are responsible for the majority of crime in our society…and yet they are the kids who come from single parent homes that are responsible for the majority of crime in our society.

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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