“You Know What They Say: You Are Who You Hang With!”

Sanni Lark
3 min read4 days ago

Some ladies are very disciplined when they are alone. So they don’t need more self-restraint. They need likeminded friends who are more useful to them than getting together to eat, get drunk, and shop!

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Having genuinely supportive people around you contributes to improved health, more peace of mind, and makes it easier to see your goals through. As the popular saying goes, you are who you hang out with.

Many women fear being alone and not being relatable to their friends anymore because this is a sign that they are growing apart from people they have known and loved for a long time. So to keep a friendship that has ran its course intact they make all sorts of sacrifices that end up negatively affecting them.

Thing is, some ladies are extremely disciplined when they are by themselves. So they don’t need more self-restraint. They need likeminded friends who are more useful to them than getting together to eat, get drunk, and shop! In other words, their friends are already on the highway to hell. They just want someone else to come along for the ride so they don’t feel lonely. And insecure. And inadequate. And unworthy.

If people want to keep playing with their lives because they are more interested in temporary pleasure and social acceptance rather than any long-term health risks…

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Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com